Thursday, 28 March 2013

Married Life..

It will be a total waste kalo I keje mlm...tp tak update blog.
Since mlm ni last i keje mlm for this week...despite of numerous conference call i kena attend, i tetap nk update blog. tak kire!!!!!
Eh.. baru taip 2 baris.. tetiba takde idea. blurghh

Ok..according to the title up there..
Mesti la nk cite pasal our married life yg baru sebulan setengah ni.
So far....KAWEN SGT BEST OK! hihihi..
Sometime..ada gak gaduh2. huisshh...mana leh lari dari gaduh2 ni. da sejak zaman bercinta pon gaduh kan.. tambah da kawen ni...smpai kan i terfikir... "ish...we all kawen ni mmg purpose utk gaduh je ke??"
BUT...lepas gaduh tu yg best. hihihi. kita akan lebih rapat dgn pasangan. hahaha.. tak reti nk describe mcm mana. have to experienced by urself la.

Seperti yg sedia maklum...we all cuti kawen sebulan. dgr mcm lama kan...padahal tak pon! sekejap je weih. honeymoon pon tak sempat ni hah..basically what we get...
Seminggu cuti before nikah.
Seminggu cuti before majlis bertandang
2 mggu cuti utk lawat sedara mara at my kg (perak) and his kg (melaka)
pastu back to normal life..carik rezeki... kumpul duit nak masuk rumah plak.. (part ni lg scary...rasa mcm nk kawen lg sekali je)

yg part 2minggu cuti tu pon...terpaksa share dgn aktiviti lain...spt, my husband pegi job interview la... uruskan dokumen pasal our house la... appeal sana sini.. fikir mana nak cari duit. oihhh... serabut plak bila ingt2 blk. hihihihi.

and currently... we have been living like nomad! pindah randah.. hihi.. kejap kt rumah PIL(parents in law)... kejap kt rumah sewa husband... kejap i kena blk rumah sewa i amik baju. ahahahah. now i da expert in term of kemas brg. confirm takde benda yg penting tertinggal da.

first couple of weeks... sgt janggal ok! selama ni tido sorang2 je.....bertemankn bantal peluk.. but now..da ada roomate. ok.. ni tak pe...dpt bantal peluk alive. sape tak suke kann. hihihi. but living with inlaws with big family.... erkk..kekok jap. da la adik beradik husband sumenye lelaki. 6org adik lelaki. and...i adalah menantu sulung. grrr... basically...kt rumah ada 10org...hanya i dgn MIL je pompuan kt rumah. dont let me start when the boys start fighting... aiyooo.. rasa nk nyorok bwh katil ok. horrible i tell u. New experience for me. and i like it! Slowly i try to adapt with the situation.

After few days majlis bertandang...MIL kena pegi outstation. nahhh.. now i'm the only women in that house. Nasib husband ada...so, tak awkward sgt. I happily cook for them. only for lunch and dinner. for breakfast...FIL already bought something. hihihi. i sgt susah ok nak bangun pg! rasanya...only i'm working day shift je kot yg bangun pg... hari lain..hampeh. kul 10pg baru bangun. errrr...... mcm mana ah nak train bangun pg? i'm not kind of morning person at all! i lebih rela constantly keje mlm. syiokkks. hopefully..bila pindah rumah baru nnt...i bley bgun pg..and prepare healthy bfast for husband. caiyok2.

After our precious one month of leave finish... nahhh... ni lg awkward.
We have to live separately! I live with his parents and sibling....while him...balik rumah bujang dia. T__T
Since dia keje kt PJ...so, it will be ridiculous nk travel from putrajaya to pj. Consider with minyak, tol, parking expenses and jammed sumore. hehehe.. i pon tak sanggup juga nk ulang alik from Danau kota, to Cyberjaya. hihihi. lucky for us...we only working for 3 or 4 days a week. But this week...school holiday...sanggup la juga i ulang alik...sbb jln smooth jerr. i loike!~

So, merasa la juga we all PJJ. muahaha.. PJJ la sngt..setakat kl ngan putrajaya je. lepas tu... setakat PJJ 2-3 hari je.. pastu jumpa blk. I really tabik spring for those couple yg PJJ yg jauh giler... johor kl, perak serawak and all that. blom lg kalo kawen with sailor. OMG... cant imagine how hard it can be. Semoga kalian dikurniakan with lots of strength and ketabahan, kesabaran sume tu.

ahaha..actually we have experienced that kind of PJJ juga...tp masa tu blom kawen. Tp tu pon da miserable giler okeh! tambah kalo da kawen..jauh gitu.. mesti 3-4kali ganda perit. I kat UK..dia kt Msia. dgn time different 8jam. sakit hati sungguh... i bangun pg kt uk...dia da ptg.. keje..blk keje pegi gym...pastu bila dia mlm... i plak da tgh hari..nak kena masak all that. Bila kt uk da ptg,so i da free....dia plak da tido.... Bila dia bangun pg... i plak nak tdo... oittt...penat sungguh nk kejar time different. kekadang terpaksa skype kt dapur..sambil i goreng ayam...masak nasik bagai. T__T. cukup la 2 bln hidup mcm tu. Skype, ym, whatsapp and email that connecting us. hahaha. tu pon..1st month i kt uk..takde wifi lg kt umah...just rely on internet data plan kt blackberry i je. wahhh.. crucial giler.

ok..sambung blk citer pasal Married life ni..
when we start live separately......time i keje siang... and blk rumah lmbat...8.30 or 9mlm baru smpai rumah mertua... adalahhh sgt segan tetiba blk..tarik pinggan and makan nasik. huwaaa... tak tau mcm mana nk tepis this guilty feeling. I sampai sanggup...singgah beli roti or ape2 from station minyak ke...alamanda ke..and mkn siap2 dlm kete..before masuk rumah. aahahha.. then..of cos MIL akan suruh makan..or tanya whether i had dinner or not. huhuuh.. actually kan.. kalo tak makan..lg mil kecik hati kot kan. T__T tetiba trus rasa mcm tak bleh blend...while husband not around. :( i'm happily terperuk dlm bilik with my ipad..and play candy crush. T___T.

Bila keje mlm plak....sama jerr...rasa guilty nk mkn sbb i tak tolong masak. i blk umah pg..kul 11 or 12 tgh hari baru tdo. and bangun just for solat zohor and asar. then...7.30mlm i bersiap nk pegi keje. MIL blk keje ptg..trus msk..so by the time kul 8pm sume da hidang. erkk.. malu kot tetiba nk pegi mkn je kan. OMG. tp when i realize bout that, yg kalo kita tolak perlawaan tanak mkn..ofcoz MIL will feel something kan?... arghhhh slumber ah tarik pinggan..makan nasi. lauk pauk sedap kottt... mkn je la..tak yah rasa bersalah sgt. hikhik. i try my best to be a good menantu ok. ada juga one day...i blk keje pg...i trus masak lauk bnyk2 for lunch and dinner, then baru i tdo. So, ok la....MIL no need to masak lepas blk keje. hihi. i've no idea if other bride ada experience mcm i ke tak.... but.. its a once in a lifetime experience kot. giler ahh..takkan ku lupe sampai bile2.

So, thats it la... next week baru we all nk pegi honeymoon kt langkawi.. 5hari 4mlm. weeee...x sabarnye!
Alhamdulillah... rumah da setel. da dpt kunci. tp satu ape pon x de progress lg. we all plan nak move by the end of april. semoga semua dipermudahkn.

Oh..ada lg pesanan... anyone yg bekerja da submit efiling? i da selamat submit 11Mac ari tu. first day back at work. Alhamdulillah...26Mac..i da dpt blk bayaran cukai yg terlebih byr straight away msuk dlm akaun bank. hihihi.. bley ah buat belanja pegi honeymoon. Siang td i tolong submit efiling husband plak. tak sbr tggu lg 15hari... leh la return tax dia guna utk beli peti ais for our house. hihi

Sedikit info from our future jiran yg keje kt lhdn:

Mulai Tahun 2010 individu yang mempunyai pendapatan penggajian tahunan melebihi RM26,501 (selepas potongan KWSP) perlu mendaftar fail cukai pendapatan.
Sekiranya pekerja layak dikenakan potongan PCB, pekerja dinasihatkan mendaftar fail cukai pendapatan terlebih dahulu sebelum potongan PCB dibuat.

So, b2b, ex b2b...isi cpt2 ok.. sbb confirm akan ada cukai yg terlebih byr. kalo tak bnyk...sikit pon jadi la kan. rezeki tuu.. hihi



bekal buat sang suami pegi keje. 
Rosemary chicken grill, omelette, pasta, vege.
Tips utk berjimat lepas kawen. muehehe... masak la bekal utk suami anda!







6 comments:

Diyana said...[Reply]

haha me also a weekend wife...
bosan dah PJJ... nak2 mlm je baru boleh call.. *sigh*

tenku butang said...[Reply]

done follow sini.. jom follow n singgah blog teman.. heee.. http://tengkubutang.blogspot.com/

klu minat kucen leh follow blog ni jugak.. =)
http://kucenkucenbelog.blogspot.com/

アヌム said...[Reply]

hi2 folo cni jugak :) btw selamat pengantin baru ye. waaa rajinnyeee buat bekal utk suami..heeee

orked violet @ SYA said...[Reply]

whoaa...rajin nye. Sya nk masak utk dr sndr pon kdg2 mLscmne nk kawen nih. iskk2..

Miss N and Mr N said...[Reply]

@Diyana hihi.. now da tak pjj lg. hihi..lmbt betul nk reply komen

@アヌム hihi..tq for the wish. tcare urself and baby!


@orked violet @ SYA SYA...i pon kekadang dtg jugak angin mls nk masak. hihi

ain shahrulazri said...[Reply]

rjinnye msk memacam hehe